I guess it could potentially be considered disrespectful. And I don't like to start on the 'he said it first' debate as well because it'll just be childish. Because I made those remarks, I should take responsibility airing a little the reasons for the comparisons. This is not a defence, but rather an explanation somewhat.
When we look at it, we're comparing the similarities in traits which the teachers and friends have identified in cho. comparing what he did ala adding to msn and the massacre of 32 students (33 includes himself) is like apples and oranges. as mentioned, we're comparing traits, adding to msn = part of stalking. we're not comparing the act of what he ultimately did. our dear friend hasn't done any big thing... yet. For the sake of clarification one can realise that the below post did mention that a group of girls have found the traits similar and what's shocking... the word is SHOCKING... to them was that they all linked it to the same guy that's been the subject of much unwanted discussion on the 3-4 posts on this blog. as one can see, the girls he had terrorized were genuinely worried that cho might be what our dear friend will become and they might be on his hit list. Perhaps the language used wasn't of the best in expressing their fear. i'm sorry if the language i used for identifying the traits was taken to mock the VA incident. It really wasn't the intention.
By identifying such traits in him, we are in fact identifying a possible threat to our school and preventive measures may be taken if enough people speak up against him. If you've read the news reports as well, you'd have realized that they did mention that chos are everywhere. Meaning people with such traits are in every school and level of society. He's not so much fighting a religious war but rather sees himself as being the only one going fighting for things he believes in. It need not be religious beliefs, it could just be beliefs.
Although nothing can be gained out of identifying him as a potential threat on a blog, the blogging of comparisons simply serves to wordify my shock as to the similarities between the two individuals. We're worried about the end product of what he may become really. Such things don't just happen in the states where there are guns. Remember the lecturer in Engine Fac a few years back? Not too long ago right? It happened right in our very school.
We can't ignore a potential threat but similarly we also shouldn't ignore the victims of VA and downplay the tragicness of the event in a petty squabble. As mentioned, not everyone knows all the details of whatever transpired but just to assure everyone, it was never our intention to downplay the events and make light of the whole incident. On my part I apologize if the victims or their families take offence in my identification of the similar traits of their killer and our dear friend for the purposes of identifying a potential threat to people around us.
Perhaps we typed too soon and didn't think too much that others would see it as disrespectful. To be honest, my first reaction when reading about his character traits in the newspapers was: OMG THAT'S SO HIM! yup. Really. To be frank i didn't really think OH WAIT I'M NOT SUPPOSED TO THINK THAT WAY. I was more of thinking... THAT BETTER NOT HAPPEN HERE... Such is the flaw of our brains, picking out a part here, downplaying a part there, putting bits and pieces together... Sigh. Still, I'll reserve my right to say 'I told you so' if he actually acts out like cho. Of course by then it'll be too late.
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Hey I understand you feelings very well. I was bugged by that weirdo once and accused of being temperamental just because I ignored him. Btw, he's Johnson Tan????!!! Oh my goodness he's on my msn list too! And despite the fact that I'm no longer his 'friend', he still added me to his real msn identity. Now my impression of him has nosdived even further.
there's something frighteningly wrong with him. *shudders* the funniest part is, it's not what is written on ur blog that makes him scary, but it's what he writes in his own blog that reflects his very deluded thinking. but i don't even dare to comment on his blog for fear that he takes all our ip addresses n does the unthinkable.
i think he needs real professional (psychological) help. for his own sake, for his future students' sake, for everyone's sake, he shld seriously go get help.
XY, for ur own safety, try not to say anything else that may provoke him which may turn out to be the final straw. take care n good luck for d exams!
I came across some articles online and these paragraphs were quite scary. No need to say why. I changed the name coz I'm also quite affected by seeing the real guy's name over and over again.
On character:
X was almost a textbook case of a school shooter: A picked-on, awkward young man who lashed out with methodical fury at an "unjust" world.
When criminologists and psychologists look at mass murders, X, 23, fits the themes they see repeatedly: A friendless figure, someone who has been bullied, someone who blames others and is bent on revenge, a careful planner, a male.
X was committed to a mental institution in December 2005 after one of two stalking incidents involving female students but was released the next day for outpatient treatment after he was deemed not to be a danger to others.
Why we probably can't do anything:
Strange behavior is not sufficient to force a student into counseling, and even the best practitioners cannot always predict when a patient has become a danger to themselves or to others, experts said.
"There can be signs, but it's not a crime to be odd," said Maggie Olona, head of student counseling at Texas A&M University and president of the Association for University and College Counseling Center Directors.
"There is nothing we can do if someone doesn't give us evidence to act."
Privacy and patient rights laws can also prevent forcible treatment and doctors or university administrators from telling relatives that something is wrong.
"Your hands are really tied unless you feel that there's some sort of imminent danger," said Richard Kadison, chief of mental health services at Harvard University.
The vast majority of people with mental illnesses are not violent and it is hard to predict whether those with violent tendencies will ever carry them out, said Mardi Horowitz, a professor of psychiatry at the University of California San Francisco.
Doesn't this sound familar?:
"A number of people have a great deal of hatred permeating their personality, a great deal of inferiority they're trying to convert into a grandiose act and a great deal of envy for anyone who has what they want," Horowitz told AFP.
Sources:
http://www.todayonline.com/articles/184368.asp
http://www.todayonline.com/articles/184418.asp
He is weird and childish. In that case, why can't you be the bigger person and let this go? Ignore the guy (whatever he might say or write on his blog) and let this feud die down... it takes two hands to clap. You seem to be a smart, intelligent and mature young woman... be the bigger person and walk away.
Considering how you and your entourage keep fighting fire with fire, instead of just ignoring him...doesn't exactly put you (or your entourage) in a good light either...he is not worth your time.
Indeed, the comments from the second anonymous makes a lot of sense regarding you: "A number of people have a great deal of hatred permeating their personality, a great deal of inferiority they're trying to convert into a grandiose act and a great deal of envy for anyone who has what they want," Horowitz told AFP.
Maybe you don't have that inferiority, but you certainly have a lot of hatred within you, and perhaps envy that he has a lot of friends backing him up and the people who are backing you up are always the same old few.
Hello Chin Aun! Nice to see you're still hung up over this!
Glad to see that NIE is so forgiving towards your special interest in assuming multiple identities for the purpose of blogstalking girls :)
Maybe you can take a cue from Wolowitz. And no, that's not a typo.
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