I find it very strange that some people who finds me 'weird' and 'sick' constantly reads my blog, and reads it frequently enough to follow up and constantly evaluate my mental state from 9th Jan up till now.
I mean seriously, if you think I'm sick, and you find what I write about is discriminating, you can always not read it. Nobody forces u to read it. First, u read my blog out of curiousity. I didn't force it on u. In fact I don't even know who are u, because people who come by here and leave comments register themselves as anonymous. Talk about sickening...isn't sneaking up onto people worse?
If you wanna say that I have a perverted knack for making a mountain out of a molehill, what about u? You come to my blog, and leave so many comments implying that I'm psychotic. Well, for your info, I'm not the one trespassing in anyone's life. In fact, if you haven't notice, I have been avoiding the person in question. And about leaving comments, I'm not leaving trails of it everywhere, but just in my own blogosphere. You on the other hand, is trespassing in my sphere, and making a big fuss about my ranting. So well, who's the really weird person.
If you think that I'm sullying someone's name, please bear in mind that I haven't spelt out the name of the harrasser. You, on the other hand, came into my blog and directly imply that I'm creating problems for you because you don't like what I write. "You" came in and point your fingers at "me". While I was staying at "home" talking about a person without a name, except for the name huhuhu which I have named him. If you are talking about the "Johnson Tan", do bear in mind I regard the name "Johnson Tan" as someone's fake ID. I'm saying that JOhnson Tan is a mask someone is hiding behind. PLUS I don't even say which module it is. The entry could be purely fictitious for all you know. So techinically speaking, I am not singling out any distinct person to discriminate. If the person I am talking about sounds like you, yet I could very well not be talking about u right? (But then if you are really like the person I was ranting about, then that's just really sad for u la)
And Puh leas(..!!), nobody is asking you to read my blog. You typed in the 'weecloud.blogspot.com' thing yourself. If you find it discriminating, or extremely disturbing, or against your religion or god or whatever, please feel free to leave. It's my space, and I am allowed to rant all I want here. It's MYNeverland. Not yours. And I'm not intending to let you head the censorship board that would be in charge of my blog any time soon.
Oh and one more thing, like I said, it's my Neverland, so I can be as narcissistic as I want; so if you hate me for whatever stupid reasons you have up in your head, well then that is just too bad. *BLEAH* If you wanna read my blog, put up with it.
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22 comments:
You go girl!!! :)
Hmmm.. after the advent of "professional" bloggers some people think that bloggers write blogs solely for the amusement of their readers, whether they be strangers or friends.
Sadly, they don't realise that sometimes bloggers blog for fun, to vent their feelings or to inform the friends of what's going on in their lives. In that case, silly bo liao people who have nothing to do have no business going around reading blogs for their own amusement and then go and complain about the content of the blogs.
For goodness sakes do they know what a diary is supposed to mean?? And if the cap fits, just wear it don't make so much noise.
I found the perfect solution to block out irritating unwanted noise. To my friends: Hey thanks!
To the loser: FOr FUCKING GOD's sake, it's MY BLOG. HOw many times u need me to say this? This is MYBLOG MYBLOG MYBLOG MYFRIGGINBLOG!!!!! NOT YOUR NOTICEBOARD.
Oh and hellooooo I have friends...SO who's the 'weird' one huh? huh? huh? *POKES*
OKie I'm being childish here, but like I said, and I will repeat it, it's MYBLOG MYBLOG MYBLOG.
The only person who's hurt is probably the person whom I was writing about(if he actually identifies the character huhuhu with himself).
Then I think you should be the one who should be reflecting.
ANTI-WEIRDOS!!! *shudders
Tsk tsk tsk...
I think Anonymous is that person you were talking about. That is why he is so defensive ;) He still hasn't worked out that nobody likes him. Either that or he is in denial.
I disagree with milf. There are many people who have read your blog and found what you said very offensive. You did not even spare a thought for the person you are writing about.
I challenge you to keep this comment on your blog and stop deleting comments written by others!
Please stop jumping to conclusions about others!
Anonymous,
Are you stupid? Why should she keeps your post? You want to criticize yet you don't have the guts to use your real name.
I have no idea who you are, nor do I expect you to reveal yourself, but I can bet you are,
1) A loser
2) Probably ugly
3) Have no girlfriend
4) Academically poor
5) No EQ whatsoever
And you know the best part, you will actually read my comment because you have no life. And although I will never see your reaction, I know it will hurt. Why? Because it is true, and your life is sad. LoL.
Dear Mr. Anonymous,
Your anonymity reflects the unpreparedness in assuming responsibility for your comments. And I can guess that you choose to leave it at that because deep down, you realise how much the people around you have grown to dislike you for your reprehensible behaviour.
And just like the way you moderate your livejournal blog(commentary), Cloud has a right to do likewise.
There is no need to challenge the blog's administrator to retain your distasteful comments.
So be a man and own up to your mistakes.
Anonymous,
Can you explain how on earth other people would find that entry offensive? It is just a normal ranting of any normal person on a person who obviously is super irritating. If you find this entry offensive why don't you just spend the rest of your life surfing blogs and finding other similar offensive entries and commenting on them? I'm sure you will find plenty to fill your time.
Do you not understand what is the meaning of a blog? The blogger has every right to write down what he/she feels like writing. Furthermore, she has not even mentioned the name, the class the person is in or anything other distinguishing feature of the guy except that he is an idiot. I think she has spared enough thought for that idiot already.
Jumping to conclusions? I think not. Sometimes it is just too obvious. Especially when the person doesn't get the hint from SO many people SO many times. Just how dumb can anybody get??
Hey thanks everybody
It seems like your 'challenge' kinda backfired onto yourself. Serves you right. I have decided to stop deleting the comments that you leave on my blog precisely to show the whole world what a big idiot you are. Big dumb ass with a thick skull that not even Xmen can dig his claws into it.
And you even had the cheek to say in your blog that some weirdos have been leaving bad comments for you...or something liket that. you are not only stupid, but a bad liar as well.
To lol: you are quite right about him having absolutely no EQ (if not he would not go around skirt chasing for one whole year, only ending up with the bad name of a loser chee hong among the people in the department. Actually the whole list of things you say about him is more or less correct.
In a nutshell, he is disgusting...and to all girls in school, do not ever divulge your whatever form of contact to anyone who remotely resembles huhuhu, no matter how harmless they may seem k. That was the mistake me and my friends made. You really don't know what kind of shit you are getting yourself into.
(In my most PRC-ly irritating voice): 老虎不发威还把我当是病猫！
waaaa. 12 comments. time to add my little take on things. let me make some basic assumptions here first. i want to be nice and assume that anonymous isn't huhuhu even though everybody here seem to think otherwise.
i want to assume that anonymous is really just a considerate individual that chanced upon this blog and was truely offended by what was written here that he took it upon himself to address what he truely felt was a wrong treatment of huhuhu. in that we should spare a thought for him and all that because ya know, we shouldn't jump to conclusions about a person just because he does alot of questionable things, rather we should give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe, just maybe, he isn't what we make him out to be.
i've been listening to cloud's rants about huhuhu verbally since last year. i think it also occassionally included similar views from some of her friends as well in that they had received the same 'treatment' from the said individual. i.e. phone calls, harrassment (yes, multiple messages and nudges may well constitute harrassment one day as technology (and the law) improves to include sms and calling on the telephone under the tort of harrassment), requests to exchange notes, be study partners etc.
normally one would just think this may just be a helpful guy or friendly guy. maybe even genuine. then you realise that he doesn't ever do the same to guys. requests to be study partners are limited to girls and in his blog, his status is 'actively seeking his other half' or somthing like that. and by jove he is actively seeking, limiting his contacts to females exclusively. let's not go into the fact that he isn't a looker. he's still a human being. but his behavoir in clinging to (or trying) the girls, his wanting to 'chase' the prettist girls in the class do come off as annoying to the said girls because they really don't want to have anything more to do with him than being simple hi-bye friends. it's not they people aren't willing to be friends with him because of his looks, it's his whole attitude and the way he approaches people that turn them off. if people don't want to have anything to do with you, DON'T KEEP TRYING. if they don't pick up your phone calls or reply to your messages, there's a reason. they're just too polite to say. read between the lines. it wouldn't be so bad if not for the fact that when some of the girls do think he's harmless and reply to his msn, he takes the opportunity to bare his soul to them and well.. nobody really wants to hear about how you broke off with your girlfriend because you refuse to have sex with her. that's something that people don't NEED to know and hence don't really want to talk to you anymore. but yet like the resilient cockroach, he keeps trying. oblivious to the fact that his technique of getting to know people is fundamentally wrong.
so now we have a scenario where the guy repels everyone he meets and tries to get to know better. what does he do? well, according to inside sources (and extensive email discussions which i had the privilege to purview) he creates a new name to hit on the same girls. it's for this reason that cloud posted her post. to share her thoughts on how fed-up she is with this individual doing all these ridiculous things. seeing that she didn't name any names or such, i'm sure any normal person reading this wouldn't know who the hell she's referring to. so i'm mighty surprised that people can be offended by the post.
there's no need to go into the debate on who gets to post what on who's blog, but i did mention to her (after she deleted the posts) not to do so in the future. she's frustrated that there can be such a stupid person in the world that can leave such comments. i.e. mountain out of a molehill. hello. have you SEEN the mole? the mole is so fucking big he's a mountain by himself. i think she can judge for herself how big this incident is as she's living it along with the rest of the girls he tried to hit on. so considering anonymous is an outsider to it all, he may not know all the facts of what huhuhu did but rest assured, cloud's very patient and it takes ALOT to make her as frustrated as she is on this incident. her frustration made her delete the comments which i told her would then seem to indicate to anonymous that he was right. which evidently happened as there's this little challange that he put up to retain his new comment. i mean... how childish is that... you wanna say it's offensive, tell us why it's offensive. tell us WHO it's offending. it's not a race issue, so i know for sure the malays, the indians, the chinese and god knows what other races aren't offended. it's not a gender issue so evidently no female or male group is offended specifically. Who exactly are offended? Ugly people? (cause i think she used the word ugly) now who will actually think of themselves as ugly or admit they are ugly? probably only the huhuhu himself would be offended but that's not you right? Right?
Lastly on jumping to conclusions, i'm sure there has to be a good explaination to all the harrassment of the girls and i'm equally sure it's not just being friendly. we should obviously give huhuhu the benefit of the doubt and see how it progresses, but evidently he is pretty thick skulled and so when people don't recipocrate, he goes one step further, and another step and another and so people bitch about him. so where does the problem lie? is it with the girls that can't stand his behavior? or is it with him pushing his luck further and further and further? if it's with him, wouldn't you agree that he needs to change, if not, based on whatever has transpired, our conclusion is logically that he is a bloody tikopek?
whatever has been said about huhuhu all stem from his actions and basically himself. in a way, he found all this trouble himself. so the only way for him to absolve himself of all the trouble is to change for the better.
Hi, I just passed by your blog and I feel that Zhiyou could have passed off writing a dissertation! But I guess there are also people who could have been offended by what you wrote. It's sensitive, after all. The blog is a public space so watch your words.
It's better to keep these comments to yourself. Just some opinions of mine, hope u're not offended.
KNS! NOw the previous anonymous is pretending to be another passingby anonymous who has just newly read my blog entries. 'Another person who have found it offensive.'
i don't know if that was an attempted jibe at my comment but there's no point there anyway.
anonymous #2, i guess i have to ask you the same question. why is this issue sensitive? someone is evidently harrassing these girls and it's so sensitive that it should be censored and not put up on a blog? no names have been mentioned at all, so why is this a sensitive issue? there's been no mention of like 'an indian professor' is harrassing me in which case it might be potentially sensitive towards indians and professors. there's only been mention of a fake id by of the guy that he's passing off as a psych major. so is that sensitive to psych majors? i think not. because he's PASSING OFF as them and he evidently isn't one himself.
it's the same as there are some REALLY DUMB models in a REALLY DUMB agency (which shall not be named) whom pass themselves off as NUS students just so that clients would think 'higher' of them. in reality their basic common of the english language is so atrocious that even the bangra at the construction site can do better than them. so in such a case, as an NUS student, what should I do? should I (i) be offended about the bad name they are spreading and go slap them around and order them to cease and desist? (ii) or just laugh it off and ignore what neglible harm they are doing to the NUS name as a whole because evidently nobody in the right mind would believe them?
Isn't it happening now? nobody is believing 'johnson tan'. the girls that have all been added to his msn don't believe that he's a psych major or that he is actually anybody else but huhuhu. so in this case, what's the harm? where's the sensitive point that should make cloud stop her ranting on her blog?
it'll be great if someone can point it out how this'll affect or offend others because the only person that this could possible offend (and i'd say he deserves it in the first place for causing all the stress to all the poor girls) is huhuhu himself. but that's not you right? anonymous #1 and #2. that's why i'm really interested to know what's so wrong about her posts.
do comment. Tks.
to dearest anonymous,
u happened to pass by her blog? just like i had to type her url in to get into her blog? i wouldn't call that pass by but deliberately dropping by!
anyway, why do u feel so strongly for the 'accused who is guilty'? could it be u actually know him? or ARE U HIM? oh heavens! now, that's scary! you're stalking xy's blog!
u know what, if u really are a man or have any guts, u can openly LEAVE YOUR NAME! at least defend yourself. but u know why it's anonymous? coz u know it's true and u dun want pple to know it's u!
someone mentioned you're gonna be teaching? tt's scary indeed! preying on young girls' not the way to go! be nice k and maybe if you stop pestering others, they will still occasionally say hi and smile at you. if not... too bad.
and how did you know pple find xy's blog offensive? you mean you showed this to others? or did someone call u to complain. frankly speaking, she's just venting her frustration and that's what a blog is for. anyway, it's HER BLOG AND NOT YOURS. si i dun really see a prob here.
dun u find it tiring to have to constantly defend yourself?
i think... he doesn't understand... hahaha.
云小姐，
其实， 我和几位朋友看过你的布洛格， 觉得你还没查清楚，就断定无名氏就是你最不喜欢的同学，似乎有欠公平。
也许你可能不同意我说的话，但毕竟忠言逆耳，我这一点小批评应该没有你批评无名氏得那么一文不值吧？
不瞒你说，我是国大中文系的学生，所谓好事不出门，坏事传千里，已经有不少中文系的人已经知道你， 你可说是名声大噪。但是多数的人都认为你这样在自己的布洛格上大肆的批评人家是有一点过分。
至于Johnson Tan, 我和朋友都认为Johnson是你失散以久的好友，可能你老早把他忘了。想一想，或许我没说错吧？
其实我也很同情你的同学，因为他本来就没有恶意，就算是三更半夜打电话给你也只是出于朋友的关心或是在问一问功课罢了，你可以自己把手机关掉，不就没事吗？难道你男朋友就可以凌晨的时分打给你，他就不行吗？至于他问你有空吃顿午餐是同学与同学之间常做的事情，毕竟大家聚一聚联络感情也好啊！
朋友啊，奉劝你一句，你自己应该去反省你自己的行为吧！不要杞人忧天，不然你的敌人会多的“不胜枚举”！放开胸怀，设法和你那位同学多聊一聊，说不定他是位好好先生也说不定，或许有可能变成你的未来知己，你说对吗？
dear mr koh. (刘博仁)
i simply cannot take your nonsense anymore. stop digging your own grave. we are not stupid people. we are not you. i'm gonna be as direct as possible here because it's pointless otherwise as you simply do not understand what is going on. stop deluding yourself and flogging a dead horse.
i find it laughable that you would go through all the time to stick up for yourself via a third personality again. perhaps it explains the long time span between your last post and this. first up, i'm even surprised that chinese studies people are even remotely interested at whatever xy has on her blog. as mentioned, why is it 过份？no names have been mentioned until now mr koh. do you want the rest of the people reading this blog to find out who you are mr koh? is that your intention? to piss me off so much that i'm gonna get all the people you've terrorized (unintentionally i'd say and only because you're so fucking thick) to come up and tell you how disgusted they are by you? only then you'll listen is it? why the hell would chinese studies people be interested in something that 1) doesn't concern them and 2) stand up vehemently for johnson tan and even assume everything in his favour when you don't know anything about him? Fact is, the girls here have been posting and on other blogs about Johnson Tan and how he mysteriously adds all these girls within the same period of time to his msn. So you're telling us we're wrong just because we should give him a chance despite all the evidence saying otherwise? what are you? stupid? which brings me to 3) chinese studies students don't necessarily need to type in chinese. The more you're trying to cover up for yourself, the more you're digging your hole. it'll all come back and bite you. hard.
if you've got the intention to defend yourself, use your livejournal blog to do so. reply directly to xy or any of the other girls on the other blogs. or you can defend yourself here too. stop hiding behind personas to do so. it's cowardly. and to use your illustration why xy should pick up the phone at 3-4am just because she picks up my phone. you're saying she's double standards by doing so. use your brain. if i don't hold a higher place to her than i might as well be nothing right. so you're saying she picks up my calls at 3-4am by default she should pick up your calls too la? then like that to put it crudely, if you fuck your girlfriend, you expect to let all everyone else fuck her too la? cannot double standard rite? it doesn't work that way.
YOU need to change your thinking and YOU need to fucking reflect. I suggest you go wash your face, sit on the toilet bowl and THINK properly. Why do i say you're flogging a dead horse? If nobody is going on about this Johnson Tan, the easiest way out for you probably would be to STOP your nonsense and STOP your defending unless you're gonna do it IN PERSON. you keep on going on and on about defending johnson tan when in all actuality, you haven't answered the simple question: what is offense about this? list the elements that make it offense. how are YOU as an individual offended if you are not mr koh. you can say you're in chinese studies, you read about this. you don't agree and say johnson tan may be xy's long lost friend (to that i say PUI!), you haven't said how it offends you, the chinese studies student. is it because she jumps to a conclusions and condemns johnson tan? that's why you're offended? so you're offended by how quickly she jumps to conclusions and you mention that she didn't check or verify all facts so she might be making a mistake? how is that OFFENSIVE? also, ARE YOU SURE SHE HASN'T CHECKED ALL HER FACTS? we know more about you than you think you let others know. there have been networks created just to identify johnson tan and you should be honored that people are willing to spend time to AVOID BEING CONTACTED BY YOU. Nobody here is jumping to any conclusion without verifying evidence on hand. Only you don't know that we know. So we're really laughing at you here.
I want you to think carefully. think carefully and ask yourself. have you done all these. are you johnson tan mr koh? don't lie to yourself. if you are johnson tan, it's very clear that you seriously need to reflect on yourself, what you've done and what you're going to do.
I also checked the nus directory list, 刘博仁 doesn't exist. You really should stop embarrassing yourself. now.
Zhiyou,
I think it's not fair to criticize everyone that you see on sight. Get a life man! Do you enjoy criticizing others? Especially 刘博仁 who's just trying to speak up for Johnson Tan whom he feels is wrongly blamed. You should honestly be the one to wash your face and sit on the toilet bowl to reflect! Otherwise you are only making a laughing stock of yourself and no one else.
You're really crazy, criticizing others for the fun of it.
erm. sorry to spoil your market mr koh. but i know nitezgal personally. you chose the wrong person to impersonate. she clarifies that it wasn't her typing that. so shame on you.
i am disturbed that you are creating imaginary characters to support and protect yourself. please don't go overboard, it's bad for your health, not to mention bad for karma. we've not replied when you've kept quiet for a good reason. we can't be bothered. but using my friend's name to scold me, ahhh... you just crossed the line and clarified how pathetic you are.
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